The following is a video by T.W. Jackson, the author of the Magic of Making Up, a really great book I recently purchased. He discusses some of the methods in his book that will help you in gettting your husband back. Click on the arrow in the middle of the screen to start the video.
I hope the video and the following article are helpful. To see a couple more videos by T.W., including one with testimonials of how his book helped them click here. If you’d like to read more about the book click here.
This is an article I wrote for another site and I wanted to share it with you. I hope you find it helpful.
The first thing you want to do after a break up is give him some time. No matter who initiated the break up, it is going to be traumatic on both of you. So the first step in getting your husband back might not seem to make sense, but it will help.
Take some time and try to help yourself feel better. Also, you need to think about what caused the break up. Are any of these causes things you can fix. Meaning, can you improve yourself to make it better? If he thinks you’re boring, make a list of things you can do so he will not see you as boring. Just brainstorm, of course somethings won’t be right, but by brainstorming and not throwing out ideas, you might come across an idea that you really like. What do you have to lose?
After some time has passed and you feel comfortable initiating contact, apologize to him if you were the one who caused the break up. As you start communicating again you can tell him about the activities you are interested in doing. You must be sincere about this, your spouse will know if this is for real or not. If you aren’t sincere about changing, it will only backfire and he will think you’re trying to trick him. What that will do is confirm his negative feelings for you.
Assuming you get back together, you need to follow through on your changes. You can’t fall back into old patterns from before your break up. If you fall back to your old ways things will probably go badly again and there will probably be no getting back together.
I hope the information here, from the book, The Magic of Making Up has helped you in getting your husband back.
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