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There are number of ways to know if your boyfriend wants to end your relationship, but these are a few strong signs he wants to breakup. Just remember it is possible something else is bothering him, something at work or a family problem he doesn’t want to talk about. So try to keep that in mind.
He doesn’t seem to have anything to say or talk about lately. This could also be caused by something other than you so tread lightly and you might be able to get him to open up. Many times guys would rather not talk than hurt your feelings. If you really want to know what he is thinking, let him know.
Pay attention to this one, does it seem like he’s not willing to make any future plans. Have you discussed getting hotel reservations for a short vacation but he wants to keep putting off making the reservations.
Sex. When was the last time you did it. Has it been awhile. Was it fun? Did he seem to care? If not you know that’s not a good sign.
Your own intuition. What does that little voice in your head tell you? If you’ve been together awhile, you’ve gotten to know him and you should have a pretty good idea what’s going on.
His close friend’s and family are distant and don’t talk to you as much as they used to. This is a strong sign since he has probably talked to them about your relationship.
If you pay close attention to what is going on around you, you should be able to get a pretty good idea if he is ready to call it quits.
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January 2nd, 2010 at 4:12 pm
thanks !! very helpful post! time to act or stop acting?